It can be difficult for men to find away of saying what is bothering them. However, if you come to him in a good way, he can talk to you about anything and everything. This is not an easy task. There are different reasons as to why men do not talk about their own problems.
Nonetheless, getting a man to open up needs a lot of wisdom to handle it. Here are ways you can have a guy talk about his problems and you might be in a position to help them out.
Make him comfortable around you
For anyone to talk to you, you must be friendly around them. It can be quite a task to find a way but being open minded can help. When approaching a guy, make him feel some friendship connection and talk freely to him.
Dont assume he is a man enough to handle it
Men dont cry. This is one of the worst statement of all time. Men have feelings too. Nonetheless,en too have problems to handle. Make him know that he can have you at any moment he need. When he feels like you have accepted that men too can suffer a thing or two, he can open up and talk to you.
Find the best time to talk about it
Finding a good time is the best way to have him talk to you. Get to him when he is maybe free to talk to you. You can talk about it when having lunch together. Food has a way of letting people open up.
Dont be judgemental
If you are too quick to judge him, he wont be open enough. Be open minded and dont judge him for any decision made.
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Ask quastions that wont attack him
Make sure that the quastions you will ask him will not hurt him. Some quastions hurts. However, finding good quastions to ask in a polite manner will help him speak out.
Take a nature walk while talking
Nature has a way of letting us talk about how we feel. Give him time and find a place where you feel very comfortable. The breeze will also help you too open up. Find activities during the nature walk too.