One of the hardest things is to know a person’s true character in the first instance. It might take you years for you to know well about a person.
However, we can only know those parts that they want us to know. At times, we are left with no options sometimes but to believe them and hope they are what they say.
Nonetheless, there are ways you can get to know a person even without them telling you.
How often do they keep promises
Words are easy to say. Everyone has the liberty to say or tell you what they feel. When you find a person giving promises that they cannot fulfil, it tells a lot about them. They cannot be trusted at all.
Their feedback on compliments
At one point or another, we often get complimented on our work, dressing or even how well we presented something. A person should receive compliments with a lot of humbleness. If one shows some pride, that is the real them.
How they behave when angry
People react differently when they are angry. However, there are ways we can control our anger. We can not let anger lead us to do something that will permanently damage others.
How they treat strangers
How you treat strangers tells a lot about you. For instance, how you treat waiters and waitresses will tell you’re true character. How well do they treat other people?
Giving them power or responsibility
When a person is in power, that is when his or her true character will be exposed. You might not tell if someone is good without just giving them a simple responsibility. How they handle responsibility will tell what kind of a person they are.
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